Welcome to The Becoming Space

A place to pause, reflect, and make space for who you are becoming.

A Space for the Messy Middle

The Becoming Space is a place for the messy middle—the space between who you were and who you are becoming.

Through stories, journals, reflection, and music, I share pieces of my own journey and create space for you to explore yours.

This is not a space about having it all figured out. It’s a space for telling the truth, asking the questions, celebrating the progress, changing our minds, and continuing to become—one messy, beautiful step at a time.

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The Road To Becoming Me

A collection of honest essays about weight loss, freedom from alcohol, relationships, fear, change, and the messy, beautiful journey of becoming.

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Coaching With Debbie

Sometimes becoming means having someone beside you while you figure out what comes next.

My 12-week one-on-one coaching experience is a space to slow down, tell the truth about where you are, and intentionally create what comes next.

EXPLORE COACHING

Reading With Your Book Club?

Bring The Road to Becoming Me into your next conversation. I’d love to connect with your book club or library and, when possible, join you virtually or in person.

BOOK CLUBS

The Becoming Space Journals

Thoughtfully created 10-day journaling experiences designed to help you pause, reflect, and make space for where you are and who you are becoming.

Explore the Journals
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Writing and Reflections

A collection of honest stories and reflections about life, change, growth, and the messy middle of becoming.

Read my writing
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The Becoming Space Journaling Playlist

Music has a way of meeting us exactly where we are. This growing collection brings together every song featured in The Becoming Space journals—music chosen to accompany you as you pause, reflect, and continue becoming.

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People I Trust

A growing collection of people, businesses, and resources I genuinely know, trust, and am happy to share.

MEET THE PEOPLE I TRUST
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Meet Debbie

I’m Debbie—a writer, storyteller, life coach, wife, mother, Gigi, adventurer, and lifelong student of becoming.

For years, I thought becoming was about reaching the next goal, fixing the next thing, or finally arriving somewhere. Life has taught me something different.

Becoming happens in the messy middle—in the starting over, the changing our minds, the telling the truth, and the choosing to keep going.

The Becoming Space is where I share pieces of that journey and create space for you to explore your own. I don’t have all the answers. I’m simply willing to share what I’m learning along the way.

Let’s Stay Connected

The Becoming Space is about connection, conversation, and continuing to become together. Follow along on Facebook or send me an email anytime. I’d love to hear from you.

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